Female sugar babies are more in luck if compared to male sugar babies, as there is more information on how to find a sugar daddy and be a professional sugar baby online. However, it depends on where you look. If you are looking for first-hand experience of male sugar babies who are currently searching for a sugar mama or have previous experience with such sugar relationships, we have some great recommendations for you.
If you are new to sugar dating, SugarLifestyleForum on Reddit is your holy grail. It’s full of advice from all of the parties involved, tips, safety rules, and just stories of sugar babies who’ve been there and seen it all. It’s a perfect place to learn more about what it really means to have a sugar momma. This thread in particular would be very helpful.
This Quora thread might also be interesting to you, as it has many tips on how a guy can become a sugar baby, the perks and drawbacks of the concept, and also many opinions on the matter from different people. And in this Quora thread, you can learn more about male sugar babies’ experiences of searching for and building long-term and short-term relationships with wealthy women.
If you are open to exploring your sexuality with a sugar daddy, as well as a sugar mommy, you can check out this subreddit and this one too. You might be interested in this thread if you are searching for a lesbian sugar momma. Oh, and if you are a trans guy and want to look for a sugar mom, you can learn about users’ experiences here. The experience that people share is a great base to learn from, yet you need to keep in mind that your journey might be different.
Practical firsthand advice
We also gathered some great threads on topics that male SBs tend to google a lot. Use these tips from real male sugar babies and avoid their mistakes.
SM and male SB realities
This AskMen section of Reddit can help you get a sneak peek into what sugar mom-sugar baby relationships are like and what SMs usually provide (this subreddit is also worth checking out). If you want to learn more about the nuances of SM-SB arrangements, we would also check out this thread and this one.
Also, as we know, there are more traditional sugar daddies than sugar mommas. If you are curious why, this Reddit thread will be a fun read for you.
And if you want to know what happens if you fall in love with your rich sugar momma, then this Reddit story will be a great read for you.
How do I create a successful profile as a male SB?
If you choose specialized sugar momma dating sites, you need to know how to use them right. This thread has some practical advice from users on how to catch the attention of the best sugar mommas with your sugar baby profile. There are over 50 comments with additional tips and a full profile reviewed. Your sugar baby profile is your business card, so you’d better do it right.
How much do I charge as a male SB?
If asking for money seems weird to you, here is a subreddit to help you out. Also, this Quora thread will be helpful if you are not sure how much to charge your sugar momma. This Allowance Master Thread (2023-2024) is a useful read on Reddit, but note that male sugar babies can usually charge more than female SBs, as they are more in demand. Here is a male sugar baby story with receipts on Reddit.
A peek into sugar momma’s perspective
Here are a few interesting threads of real sugar mommas and their experience with mutually beneficial relationships. Use them as a guidebook of what is worth doing and how to avoid mistakes:
- Huge collection with almost 5K replies on “What’s your sugar momma story?”
- Story of a sugar momma at 34 years old and one who is 28 years old; as you can see, not all SMs are over 50
- Learn about sugar mommas who prefer dark sugar here.
Also, this important guide will help you learn how to stop a fake sugar mom. Unfortunately, not all women claiming to be rich sugar mommas are so. There are women who just want to benefit from young guys looking for financial help. Here is a story of a sugar baby who shares their sugar momma scam experiences. There are similar stories here and here that can help you get important insights on what red flags to keep an eye on.
